Proxy Munchausen Against Son

"When is acting against the wishes of a child justified?"

The contents of this page constitute the Issue Of The Week for September 27, 2009.

We introduce a cartoon character:

Dr. Proxynne Syndro, married Munchausen, known by (the nickname) Proxy.

A picture says a thousand words.

Proxynne's Needs

 

 

 In our story, Dr. Proxy Syndro-Munchausen

 - Wants money for her 20yo son: cartoon 1

 - For whom she does nothing: cartoon 2

 - With whom she shares nothing

 - Against his wishescartoon 3

Proxy Wants money!!!: cartoon 4

QUESTIONS TO CONSIDER:

 - Is Proxy trying to help her son?

 - Is Proxy trying to punish her son?

 - Is Proxy building a healthy relationship with her son?

 - Is Proxy considering her 20 year old son a respected loved one, or an an owned object?

 - What are Proxy's reasons?

 - What if Proxy were a trained professional, an MS, MBA, PhD, JD, or MD? What would this add?

 - What if Proxy's son had left her home because of abuse? What would that add to Proxy's motives?

 - Is Proxy's behaviour benign? acceptable?

 - Is Proxy's behaviour accepted?

We will revisit this issue with some answers provided by various entities.

We welcome your input in our forums or,

by e-mail: prevent@custodialabuse.org